Blog Tarveer + Tej, a Brampton Wedding
In an age where swiping left and right has become the norm, some love stories seem to emerge as if destined by fate. This is one of those tales.
They first crossed paths in January 2022 on Hinge, a dating app they each used sparingly, not really holding out hope for anything serious. Both had set their location ranges to be quite small, limiting potential matches to their immediate areas. Yet, on that particular day, everything aligned perfectly. He was preparing to head back to Ottawa that afternoon, but just before he left, their profiles matched.
Despite initial doubts about dating apps, a spark quickly ignited between them. She was from Brampton, and though he was born and raised there, he had recently moved to Ottawa for work. After just a few days of chatting, it became clear that they shared something special. Although neither voiced their intentions right away, both silently recognized that they could see a future together. Their love story grew quickly; they met in January 2022, and by June 2024, they were married. Many people later asked, “How could you know so quickly?” But for them, it was simple: when the right one is in front of you, you just know. There was an undeniable connection that neither was willing to overlook.
Their first meeting was at a coffee shop. She was so nervous that she could barely hold his gaze, but their conversation flowed with ease, as if they had known each other much longer. The very next day, they had dinner before he returned to Ottawa. And so began a long-distance journey that would test and deepen their bond over the months.
In their early conversations, he had mentioned that he didn’t foresee leaving Ottawa anytime soon and that, when they married, she would likely need to move there. It was a big decision for her, but after some reflection, she realized she was ready to make that commitment because he was the man she wanted to build her life with.
Three months later, they decided it was time to introduce each other to their families. She remembers her first visit to his family home for a barbecue—an evening filled with warmth, laughter, and acceptance. His parents and close friends welcomed her with open arms, making her feel like she was already a part of their world. A week later, he came to meet her family, where her father, with all the protective love of a parent, asked him the classic question, “What is your intent with my daughter?” Without hesitation, he replied that he saw himself marrying her. This conversation marked the beginning of their journey towards marriage, and soon, they arranged a date for their families to formally meet.
Their parents hit it off, and by July of that same year, they held a Roka ceremony, an intimate event sealing their commitment to each other. From there, their love story moved swiftly. They set their engagement date for June 2023 and began planning their wedding for 2024.
Throughout their relationship, they navigated the challenges of long distance. The hours between Brampton and Ottawa often felt like oceans apart, but they made every effort to see each other as often as possible, rarely going more than a month without a visit. During this time, they truly learned to communicate and understand each other on a deep level. Although they dreaded the long-distance aspect at the time, they are now grateful for the lessons it taught them. It strengthened their communication and built a foundation of listening to each other’s joys and struggles and working through them together. Now, living together as husband and wife, they appreciate those lessons even more, knowing they make them stronger as a couple.
As their bond with each other’s families deepened, they both felt a growing pull to be closer to home. They cherish family and community, and Ottawa, as lovely as it is, just didn’t feel like home without their families nearby. This realization led him to make the incredible decision to move back to Brampton, finding a new job so that they could be close to both families. It was a change that brought immense joy to everyone—especially her.
Their wedding week was a perfect reflection of their relationship; everything went smoothly, thanks to their amazing support system. Both are the eldest siblings, and they initially worried about whether their younger siblings could step up for such an important time in their lives. But their siblings truly surpassed expectations, coming together to create a beautiful, heartfelt celebration. Each detail they had carefully planned was brought to life, making the experience even more magical.
The vendors they worked with were exceptional, each bringing their unique talents to the wedding. They couldn’t have created such an unforgettable week, wedding, and reception without their dedication and expertise. They are deeply grateful to each of them and to *South Asian Bridal Magazine* for featuring their story and showcasing their beautiful photos.
For two people who were once skeptical about dating apps, they now wholeheartedly believe that love can indeed be found online. Their relationship, though long-distance at first, taught them the importance of communication, effort, and compromise. If there’s one thing they’ve learned, it’s that love, when nurtured, can overcome any challenge. As they begin this new chapter in their lives, they are grateful for the serendipitous match that brought them together.
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